From what i understand,many fans are upset[or happy] about SMG choosing Angel over Spike and now there is a renewed shipping war,but what we all need to remember is
a) every person has his/her own different opinion and even if it’s the actress herself that prefers a pairing over the other it doesn’t mean that’s the endgame,
b) as you can see above she clearly has nice things to say about both relationships and the fact that she prefers Bangel,doesn’t mean she hates Spuffy and
c) shipping wars are needless and unnecessary and we should all just enjoy the show and yes,of course,debate and discuss,but not by offending those who have a different ship.
In the end we all belong in the same fandom.